Do you suffer from low self esteem? If you are prone to harsh self-judgements or negative self talk , you may be holding yourself back from happiness and opportunities. The unspoken words inside of our heads , the ones that make up our unending internal string of private thoughts, emotions and attitudes shape how we think about everything around us.
When those words are negative, they are embedded deep within our brains and make our experience harder.
Here are 7 ways I found most efficient to help you improve your self talk to positive and help you change the way you see the world.
Change your self talk to positive
One of the best ways to boost your self esteem is through starting the day with a positive affirmations. Simple “I am” statements can have so much power. Think about what is decreasing your self esteem, and create an affirmation to counter it. Repeat your affirmations throughout the day, and you will eliminate self-limiting dialogue.
One way to reprogram your mind for positivity is by using the ThinkUp app. ThinkUp is a self-help app which enables you to develop a healthier mindset. This app allows you to record your voice reading affirmations. With the recordings and relaxing music of your choice, you can use this app to create a personal meditation that inspires you. Your brain trusts and understands your voice more than anyone else’s. Try out the free version of this helpful tool, and embrace your inner strength.
Recognize Your Uniqueness
There is no one on this planet like you. Consider what are your strengths. Maybe you are creative, or your work ethic is driven by your powerful story. Do you have a strong passion for something? Is there something that you do so well that other people can’t help but take notice? Own that uniqueness, and use it to look at the world in a new way.
When something goes well because of your actions, treat yourself. Often we don’t take the time to give ourselves a pat on the back. A reward doesn’t have to be lavish, but by appreciating yourself, you are establishing a practice of self-love.
If someone notices your work and offers a compliment, accept it. You have won their esteem, and they recognize your value. Know that you have done something well, and use that to boost your sense of self.
Read Inspirational Books or movies
Reading the inspiring stories of others can motivate a shift in your mindset. If you need help owning your greatness, read books or see inspirational movies. I personally like to her inspirational lectures on youTube while I am exercising . Through hearing about the struggles that others have overcome, you may find strength. Choose a sentence or phrase from an inspirational work, and create a meditation around it.
Find Positive Friends
The people with whom we share our space can impact how we feel about ourselves. Seek the people that accept you for who you are. These positive people will encourage you to let your light shine, and they will reflect back the light that you put forth.
Work on the self will improve your quality of life. You will notice that new opportunities arise as you learn to love and accept yourself.